I´ve been dating the same man for about 3 years and have been living together for close to that time. He proposed to me last year and I turned him down. We are still together, but I don´t ever see my self marrying him. He is not a bad guy or anything, he has a good job, nice, sincere, trustworthy, probably everything I wanted in a guy. The problem is, he loves me way more than I love him. I do love him, but there is something missing. I am looking for the spark, the passion, the excited feeling inside when you are about to see him. I don´t have that with him and never have. I am honest with him, but he keeps thinking I am going to change my mind. I try to break it off, but then he doesn´t go anywhere and thinks I am going through a a faze. I´m not. I sometimes think why would I let this man go, but I feel like I´m missing something in my life and I will find it, but not with him. ANY ADVICE????

Last Edited on August 9, 2008.